Should i get a hard spanking or get grounded? I was in big trouble today(for some reason) and my parents said i have to either get grounded for 2 months or a very hard spanking on my bare bottom, this will be given by my mom. what should i choose?! i hate grounding but spanking also hurts! |
On the off chance that this post is legitimate, I will answer.
First thing Missy, your parents should not be giving you the choice. At 13 my first reaction would be to ground you, and I guarantee you would hate it. Secondly, if you did something so monumental in the books of misdeeds, perhaps a spanking in addition to grounding, but one must remember, you are 13.
In either case, it is not your place to choose. I am actually surprised that you have the time to ask Yahoo Answers this question, which is why I second-guess the legitimacy of this question. |
Where can i find a MILF to give me a good hard spanking? I'm Desperate for some 'attention', and I've been a naughty little boy. |
| orange county baby. they come in all shapes, sizes, and smells. |
I s wright to have my hard spanking from my husband in front of our 3 yrs daughter? He some times spanks me, because of mistakes done by me or because of let my daughter did some mistakes, and I can not stopped him but he saw that it is wright to have my spanking in front of my daughter to give me and her in the same time a good lesson. |
Hmm adult spankings should always be for sexual arousal with all the acts of sex. SO no. If you like to be spanked when you do sothing wrong than have at it but not in front of the guy.
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Who of the females would give me such a hard spanking...? Would you give me such a hard spanking with whatever on the bare that even though I try to play the tough guy at the end I have to surrender crying like a baby? What would you choose? |
You better believe it!!!
I'd strap your bare bum til you cried!
And you'd LOVE it! :D
(But only if you returned the favor!) :p |
I think getting a hard spanking is hot, so how would i get spanked? I am a 20 year old dude btw ,,, i want the spanking to hurt |
| Craislist.. Will do.. |
If a Hypothetical Woman Enjoys A Hard Spanking From A Hypothetical Man In The Bedroom? Does this negate her feminism? *blush* |
I wouldn't think so.
But if it did, that would settle once and for all whether or not I'm a feminist. |
Do you think its guy abuse for a guy to be spanked so hard they can't sit down after the spanking? In your honest opinion do you think this is guy abuse? Yes or No? Why?
No ignorant answers or rude answers please. I will give you my opinion later. |
| No, I do not. It's how most of us were spanked. If a parent was forced - by the guy's continued misbehavior - to resort to giving a spanking, it was going to be a memorable one. Along with the memory of how painful the spanking was and how much it hurt to try to sit afterward, the REASON for the spanking was remembered too. A traditional spanking given by conventional means is never abusive. |
Do you think its discipline for a guy to be spanked so hard they can't sit down after the spanking? Do you think this is guy abuse? |
| I think it's abuse. I am fine with spanking guyren for serious offenses, but you can make it memorable without making them have marks/welts, or be so sore their skin is swollen where they can't sit. But getting a hard spanking and a red butt is different, and acceptable. |
My 10 month old is starting to hit hard! spanking his hand lightly and saying no has no effect!? i do not believe in spanking and i adore my little boy so i will not even consider it but what do i do. i am guilty of spoiling him but can't i show my son love without him turning into a little monster? how do you teach him no without yelling and pain? |
At 10 months old, you can't spoil him. He doesn't understand that hitting causes pain, and he can't be expected to understand that. Every guy goes through this period and the best thing to do is say "Ouch! Owie!" in a serious voice, then put him down and go do something else for a little while (as in, a minute. If he comes over to you, loves on him again.) If you're consistent and don't make it into a game, then he will learn with time that if he hits you, the game stops.
Note though, some guys do learn that if they want mom to put them down (so they can explore, something his age really likes to do) then they will hit to get down. If that becomes the case, consider putting him in his crib for a moment, then going back and letting him out.
Add: Just to point it out. Until the ages 2-3 (by 3 all guys have reached this stage) he doesn't understand consequences very well. Some not at all. Therefore ANY punishment is inappropriate. However, interruption and distraction is fine. The time out I suggested is not to be confused with the punishment type. It's an interruption. A good distraction might be to pick up his baby and start loving on that instead, or pick up a book and start reading it, and see if he'll come over to sit with you. Basically, put him down as an interruption, and see if you can encourage better behavior around you with the distraction. |