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LESBIANS: Would you let a man perform cunnilingus on you? Or would that be a turnoff? I am a lesbian. I am not sexually attracted to men. I tried it a few times in the past and I was indifferent and slightly turned off by it and never wanted to return to it. There was no abuse or traumatic experience, I am just not sexually attracted to men.
I discovered I was a lesbian in high school at the age of 14 and started engaging in oral sex with girls at that time.
As a lesbian, I have no interest in putting a penis in my mouth or having a penis inside of me. When it comes to receiving cunnilingus, the idea of a man doing that to me turns me off as well. Even though the penis is not involved in the act, it is still not an arousing thought. I guess it would be like a gay man receiving fellatio from a woman, or a heterosexual man receiving fellatio from a man, etc.
What do other lesbians think? Would you allow a man to perform cunnilingus on you? No other kind of sex, just that. | Never.
Reading this just disgusted me.
I don't like men. No matter what type of sex it is it's still sex and I'm still not interested. | My boyfriend says that a lesbian once taught him oral sex...? One of his ex's realized that she was a lesbian years after they broke up and they remained friends. One day (before him and i were togeather) she offered to teach him how to perfom fabulous oral cunnilingus (probably didnt spell that right) so apparently now he knows (its a new relationship, and him and i havent had sex yet so i say apparently). Any way is it true that lesbians are really great at oral sex?? :) | as every vagina is different there is no 'formula' for giving good oral. I agree he is just trying to get you into bed. I have heard the line myself from men many times, "Ya know poet they say I give better head than a lesbian," or "my ex was a Les/bi/older woman/prostitute she taught me how to give great cunnilingus I bet I could make you straight"
Girl it is a crock of sh!t.
you'd be better off asking how many girls after they came out as lesbians called their ex boyfriends up and invited them round for a free lesson in cunnilingus?
bottom line if you like him and can get past the macho bragging bulldust then by all means sleep with the fellow but chances of him being good at oral aren't any higher than any ones. good luck to you anyway : ) | How common is it to use dental dams for safe sex? When performing cunnilingus, does anyone actually use these things? It seems like a total mood killer and impossible to even be turned on by this. But if not used, how likely is it that someone could get an STD from an affected person during oral sex? It seems people are often smart about using condoms but nobody really uses them for oral. What do lesbians do? | | I never have, but that is because I am comfortable enough with my partner that we both got tested before engaging in it. It takes a level of comfort to have that talk, but if you are going to be having any kind of sex, then you should be able to talk about it. As for safety, it seems like the male would be more likely to pick something up while giving oral instead of vaginal... Trust me when I say seeing pictures of a yeast infection in a guy's mouth is disgusting... I suggest using flavored lube on a cut up condom if you want to be safe. | Cunnilingus... do you like performing it? a question to the guys..... or lesbian women...
Do you enjoy performing oral sex on a woman?
My girlfriend loves it and tells me that the few guys she had relationships with before me enjoyed doing it. She always wants me to give her head but I can't stand it for the life of me.
Every time I go down there I almost throw up from the smell. I can't find the words to describe how foul it is.
How can guys enjoy this? Are vaginas supposed to smell like that. I've only tried giving head to the girl I'm with right now (my previous girlfriends never asked me to) so I have nothing to compare it to.
Most guys apparently enjoy this. Are there any other guys who find the smell of vagina as repulsive as I do? | | Of course we all love it, is the greatest sexual act of them all, nothing like it....love the smell and the taste, love them love them love them.....after the shower and before the shower... | Questions about cunnilingus (oral sex on women)? Girls, want tot learn as much as possible about oral sex techniques. I used to have a much larger penis, I had a surgery and now it’s smaller. I explain what type of surgery I had and why in one of my posts. My question was My penis size changed after surgery, I want honest answers by women ONLY!? Just in case you feel like reading it and answering it.
Anyhow, I accept that I have a very short penis (4 5/8” long by 6” round). In very open conversations with some female friends as well as some replies that I’ve received here and other forums, I can’t forget about pleasing women with my small penis. Again, I accept that and up to a certain extend, I’m ok with that.
A friend of mine told be that I should forget all together about my “little” penis and relatively very little experience with women and that I should learn how to please a women with my mouth and fingers. The same way that lesbians do. “That way your little penis will be the desert, an extra, and not the main course like most men want it to be,” she said. I’m all for it. I really want to learn how to please women orally. She suggested finding women that would let me practice on them. Women that could teach me. Without reciprocation.
So here are my questions, could you describe to me exactly the way you like to be eaten? Movements of the tongue, lips, hard or soft suction? I mean think about something that a guy did to you that it felt really good. Those are the type of things I want to know.
Another question, my friend suggested finding women that would let me practice on them. Do you think that they really are some open minded women out there that are ok with a guy practicing on them. I would like to find a girl(s) to practice my oral skills on without her having to reciprocate on me or having to engage in any other sexual act. Where can you find a girl like that and/or how do you approach a girl with such a question? | I believe you can easily find them. Its a nice thought to jus lay back and let the guy lick u to ur heart's content without havin to do anythin for him. If I were you, I would ask some sex-friendly female friend. Try picking someone you would be comfortable with.
Or just start dating some girls, and please them all. Practise makes perfect. I wish my cute friend would ask me for dis kind of favour! | Straight Males, homophobes or not, read and thought? Found on scientific america!
"I wish I could say that I decided to come out of the closet in my early twenties for more admirable reasons—such as for love or the principle of the thing. But the truth is that passing for a straight person had become more of a hassle than I figured it was worth. Since the third grade, I’d spent too many valuable cognitive resources concocting deceptive schemes to cover up the fact that I was gay.
In fact, my earliest conscious tactic to hide my homosexuality involved being outlandishly homophobic. When I was eight years old, I figured that if I used the word “fag” a lot and on every possible occasion expressed my repugnance for gay people, others would obviously think I was straight. But, although it sounded good in theory, I wasn’t very hostile by temperament and I had trouble channeling my fictitious outrage into convincing practice.
I may have failed as a homophobe, but unfortunately, many people succeed. And it turns out we may have something in common—many young, homophobic males may secretly harbor homosexual desires (whether they are consciously trying to deceive the world about them as I was or not even aware they exist). One of the most important lines of work in this area dates back to a 1996 article published in The Journal of Abnormal Psychology. In this empirical paper, researchers Henry Adams, Lester Wright, Jr., and Bethany Lohr from the University of Georgia report evidence that homophobic young males may secretly have gay urges.
In this study, 64 self-reported straight males with a mean age of 20.3 years were divided into two groups (“non-homophobic men” and “homophobic men”) on the basis of their scores on a questionnaire measure of aversion to gay males. Here, homophobia was operationally defined as the degree of “dread” experienced when placed in close quarters with a homosexual—basically, how comfortable or uncomfortable the person was in interacting with gay people. (There is debate in the clinical literature about the semantics of this term, with some scholars introducing other constructs such as “homonegativism” to underscore the more cognitive nature of some people’s antigay stance.)
Each participant then agreed to attach a penile plethysmograph to his, well, “lesser self.” According to the authors, this plethysmograph device is “a mercury-in-rubber circumferential strain gauge used to measure erectile responses to sexual stimuli. When attached, changes in the circumference of the penis cause changes in the electrical resistance of the mercury column.” Previous research with this apparatus (the plethsymograph, not the penis—well, actually both) confirmed that significant changes in circumference occur only during sexual stimulation and sleep.
Next, the participants were placed in a private chamber and presented with three 4-minute segments of graphic pornography. The three video snippets represented straight porn (scenes of fellatio and vaginal intercourse), lesbian porn (scenes of cunnilingus or tribadism), and gay male porn (scenes of fellatio and anal intercourse). Following each randomly ordered video presentation, the participant rated how sexually aroused he felt and also his degree of penile erection. Can you guess the results?
Both groups—non-homophobic and homophobic men—showed significant engorgement to the straight and lesbian porn and their subjective ratings of arousal matched their penile plethsymograph measure for these two types of video. However, as predicted, only the homophobic men showed a significant increase in penile circumference in response to the gay male porn: specifically, 26 percent of these homophobic men showed “moderate tumescence” (6-12 mm) to this video and 54 percent showed “definite tumescence” (more than 12 mm). (In contrast, for the non-homophobic men, these percentages were 10 and 24, respectively.) Furthermore, the homophobic men significantly underestimated their degree of sexual arousal to the gay male porn."
From Single, Angry, Straight Male...Seeks Same? by Jesse Berring | | I'm a 17 year old guy, and imm going to tell you what i think about people who are homosexual. I have some friends who are gay, and some family members who are gay. They are just like everyone else. A lot of them aren't the typical douchbags that think they're all tough, which is why they are actually fun to be around. | Making out with a straight(ish) good friend Background info: I'm a 19 year old lesbian, and a virgin, she's a 19 year old straight girl and not a virgin (but only ever kissed girls before)
Anyways, a close group of friends and I drink together a decent amount during the summer months. Whenever this happens, she and I generally make out quite a few times, but nothing all that serious (lips/tongue only and nothing below the neck). However, last night, we were making out on a trampoline all alone for about 45 minutes, and things started to escalate (lips/tongue all over including nipples, but no cunnilingus). She claims to be straight, but also says she loves kissing in general. I'm pretty sure we would have had sex had I not stopped when I did.
We both say we would make out when sober, but the thrill of teasing each other a little bit and claiming we need to be drunk is almost as thrilling as the making out itself.
Thoughts/opinions?
| Talk to her about it when your both sober, maybe she will want to try things with out being drunk.
I was in a very similar situation with this girl, we've done a little bit of parting together here and there we dont know each other very well but she knows I like girls and every time we drink together she's ALL over me and we make out like crazy. I tried confronting her about it when we were sober and she freaked out and said it was a mistake and that she's not like that and blah blah blah. I still think she has a thing for me and is to shy or embarrassed to admit it but I'm not gonna push it. She and I no longer talk, but hopefully things will be different for you.
~alex | Women do you respect men who perform oral on you...even though...? ...he's probably giving you BV in the process?
Is the oral worth the BV, hopefully, most times?
In a detailed study of 17 consecutive lesbians attending the department of genitourinary medicine at the Royal Sussex County Hospital in Brighton, bacterial vaginosis was found in six women (35%). Of nine lesbians who practised receptive cunnilingus in the previous 4 weeks, six (67%) had BV. By contrast, no BV was present in all eight women who did not practise oral sex
In a parallel prospective study of 256 consecutive heterosexual female patients attending the same department, 55 (21%) were diagnosed as having BV. Of 111 women who practised receptive cunnilingus in the previous 4 weeks, 41 (37%) had BV. Of 145 women who did not have oral sex, only 14 (10%) had BV. In both groups there was strong association between BV and receptive cunnilingus (p<0.001). | | Way to ruin a good thing! | Does anyone else have a 'liquid' sexual orientation? Ok here's my thing. I am gay. I love men, the chest, the abs, the arm pits, the body hair, everything BUT sometimes there will be a time period (maybe a week or two) when I would like to do a girl and it sounds really hot and I may even watch str8 porn for purposes of looking at the WOMAN. Also, cunnilingus (eating her out) is SUCH a hot thing for me to watch. I LOVE watching that! (even when I'm not attracted to women) But only if its a man doing it, I can't stand lesbian porn.
So before you say 'oh you're bi' keep in mind my attraction to women is liquid it goes on and off. Like right now forcing me to have sex with a girl would be cruel and unusual punishment. | | A lot of bi men and women have a stronger sexual desire to be with one sex gender rather than the other, but at the same time they are still attracted to their own gender. | Is there anything wrong being like this? Hi I'm a 24-year-old bisexual Korean female. And I'm always too submissive with my partner who is lesbian whenever I have sex with her. for some reason, I hate being the dominated partner. I've always loved being dominated against. Like when I had a 4some with my girlfriend and three other girls, I was always the submissive one out of them. two of them would penetrate me give me nice big butt-slaps and for my girlfriend, i would give her cunnilingus and should pat my head as if I was her pet (which feels really good). But for some reason, I don't see this as degrading to myself. I like it! is this normal? is there anything wrong with this? | | I know that lots of people have that sort of fetish. It's okay. As long as you're comfortable with it and aren't being pressured into doing anything you're not comfortable with. |
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